Yes forums have fuelled my spending but.....
Forums have educated me and helped no end.
Forums have provided a valuable source of not only information but opportunities to buy at decent rates, to try things courtesy of some VERY helpful and considerate like minded people and for me to hopefully repay some of that courtesy by way of return.
It is SO sad when the odd thread comes up talking of people being ripped off.
A meetup? Wow. I would be up for it and willing to travel BUT , hell the organisation and agenda etc? Mmmm.. Could be a difficult one that, despite good intentions and no end of planning, may well end up in a few beers in a pub somewhere with the odd comment on razor appreciation. Sorry guys, negativity comes with age and experience.